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| | In the last few weeks, some people's social circles have erupted with heated discussions of the violence in Israel and Gaza. For others, fights over gun control, policing, abortion and other social and political issues are growing more common. Scientists who study the intersection of conflict and human behavior say it's essential to understand the biology behind some of these toxic interactions. We're wired to form tight bonds with groups we belong to and fight to protect them. So how do you diffuse combustible situations? Tim Phillips, a veteran conflict-resolution expert, helped negotiate some of the most fraught conflicts in modern history — ceasefires of religious clashes in Northern Ireland and the establishment of what became South Africa's Truth and Reconciliation Commission after apartheid. He says defusing an escalating situation first requires releasing a brain hijacked by defensive emotion. Phillips says it means saying to your opponent, for example: "I understand how important this is to you; I understand this is core to your identity and your community, and I respect your sacred values." It means reflecting your opponent's humanity back to them. Phillips says he's seen people emotionally disarm the opposition in a disagreement this way. It can bring together fierce adversaries, and change history. He cites an example from 1972: Shirley Chisholm, the first Black congresswoman in the U.S., was battling for the Democratic presidential nomination with political rival Alabama Governor George Wallace, a fierce segregationist. After he was shot in an attempted assassination, Chisholm visited him in the hospital and prayed at his bedside for his recovery. "Wallace's daughter later said that that gesture of compassion completely changed her father," Phillips says. Wallace reportedly wept openly, and shifted his stance on racial segregation. Read advice from Phillips about how to apply these principles in heated discussions in your own life. +Don't miss: Learn more about creating win-win conversations from Kwame Christian, the director of the American Negotiation Institute. Here's Life Kit's 2020 interview with him and a simple, three-step technique to engage in tough discussions while keeping your cool. |
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I don't know about you but in my household the autumn changing of the clocks is met with big sighs all around. Losing an hour of light in the evening is a bummer, especially with already shorter, colder days upon us. My family usually snaps out of our time-change-induced bad mood in a week or so. But as NPR's Rachel Treisman writes, for some people, this time of year triggers prolonged changes in mood, sleep and appetite that can be signs a potentially serious form of depression known as seasonal affective disorder, or SAD. "For some people, these changes are really severe, and they add up to what is equivalent to a clinical episode of major depression," says Dr. Paul Desan, director of the Winter Depression Research Clinic at the Yale School of Medicine. Desan tells NPR that some 5% of adults in the U.S. experience SAD, and it typically lasts about 40% of the year. Another roughly 10% suffer from "subsyndromal" SAD, meaning they experience some symptoms but do not meet the criteria for clinical depression. Symptoms include feelings of sadness, fatigue, cravings of carbs and starch and associated weight gain. Luckily there are some pretty simple ways to get help. Medication may be called for in some cases, so talk to your doctor. But many people may get relief from using bright light therapy, with a device you can buy for about $80. Read more about the signs of SAD, how light therapy works, and other lifestyle changes that can help. |
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New survey data are in: Women continue to cook more meals than men do each year in nearly every country -- except for one. 'Bun in the oven' is an ancient pregnancy metaphor. This historian says it has to go. Drug shortages have become chronic at U.S. hospitals, including those needed for crash carts. Doctors and nurses are very concerned. |
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